Fearless Mom

I enjoy the adrenaline rush that comes with defying something that someone thinks is too dangerous. Even as a young girl, growing up in Florida, I was fearless. I remember climbing the tallest trees, playing with my friends in the underground rain gutters, and catching snakes - even the poisonous ones. I heard my Mom shout many times that I almost gave her a heart attack.  As I grew into adulthood, I ventured into rock climbing, repelling, trapeze classes, wake boarding, surfing, white water rafting, and downhill skiing.

Tallest Water Slide

I recently read that the tallest water slide is being built in Kansas City. When I saw the slide, my heart started pounding hard and fast as it does whenever I try something new. I imagined the thrill of falling 17 stories (taller than the Statute of Liberty) straight down halting in a pool of water. Even as a new mother, in my forties, I still want to experience the rush so I just added this ride to my bucket list.

I would venture to say that motherhood offers me the same heart pounding feeling. In the almost six months of being a new mom, I have felt fear, worry, panic and far bigger adrenaline rushes than any water slide could ever provide. I recall the one time that we didn't strap Alexa into her bouncy chair; she slid right on to the hard wood floor. In less than a second I was at her aid checking every inch of her for a scrape, a bump or bruise; thank goodness she was fine.

Rhett

Just yesterday, we took Alexa to the big indoor wave pool for her cousin's 4th birthday. I watched as the birthday boy, Rhett dared his friends to jump into the deep end of the pool. This young boy pushed my panic button several times when he climbed up a ladder, jumped off the counter-top and attempted to flip on the bed. Even though he’s not my child, I held my breath, gasped at every attempt and even screamed the very words my mom told me, you almost gave me a heart attack!

Alexa is still very young, yet I often find myself worrying about her health and safety.  I don’t want to be that mother who hovers like a helicopter over my child in fear. God commands us to “fear not” to be strong and courageous in all areas of life, including motherhood. Living without fear is easier said than done.

Mastered Sitting

“Fear not!” is the most repeated command in the Bible. To be free of fear I have to eliminate the habits of fear-based thinking and rely on God’s Word.
 
I know that there will always be those momentary surges of adrenaline when Alexa scares me with her attempts at new and daring feats. If she's anything like me, I'm in trouble. It’s natural for mothers to worry however I want to be a “fearless” Mom. I’ve learned that the only way for me to stop fear from creeping in is to pray, read the scriptures and cast my fears, doubts, and worries to Him.  

The Key to Fulfillment is Gratitude

5 months and already has two teeth

When I worked for Tony Robbins, the motivational speaker, I was exposed to some profound wisdom. One topic Mr. Robbins would often discuss in his seminars is fulfillment. He believes if more people focused on their journey through life and not so much on achievement, they would experience fulfillment. And the key to fulfillment is gratitude.  When we give thanks and express gratitude in all things, it makes us appreciate what we have been given. I just read a recent article explaining the steps Tony Robbins takes every day to achieve 15 minutes of fulfillment. The world would be a better place if more people would count their blessings. I’ve provided the link to the article http://sourcesofinsight.com/start-your-day-like-tony-robbins/

Although I do often pause to appreciate what I have in life, I have not established a morning habit of giving thanks. Everything that I am or that I possess is because of God’s loving kindness. After all, there are many verses in the bible about giving thanks such as “In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (I Thess. 5:18).

 

My baby duck

Since November is a month of gratitude, I’ve provided my list of 30 days of what I am thankful for;  as well; I am making a commitment to start each day with a prayer of thanks along with a few of Tony Robbins’ recommended affirmations.

I am thankful for:

1.      God’s grace and mercy

2.      My health

3.      The gift of marriage and my devoted husband, who continually builds me up

4.      My beautiful daughter and getting to witness her growth and development

5.      My family-parents, in-laws, sister, nieces, and nephews

6.      This country and my freedom

7.      The men and women who fight for our freedom

8.      Clean water

9.      Electricity and heat

10.  The ability to love and be loved

11.  My education

12.  Clean air

13.  The weather-fall, winter, summer, spring - I love to witness the change of seasons

14.  My wonderful friends, you’ve been my rock through life’s ups and downs

15.  Breathtaking sunrises and sunsets that make me stand in awe of God's creative abilities

16.  Laughter, it is the best medicine

17.  Technology – my car, my phone and my computer

18.  My job, I am blessed to work from home three days a week

19.  My two dogs, they truly exemplify unconditional love

20.  Miracles because they really do happen

21.  Music and dancing, two things that really make me happy

22.  Exercise because it is the best natural high

23.  Sports - oh how I love football, baseball, tennis, and volleyball

24.  Volunteering, I love giving my time to worthy causes

25.  Giving, I think that is why I’m always broke; it brings my great joy to give

26.  Food including dessert

27.  The beach for its power and beauty

28.  Sleep, I love waking up refreshed

29.  My mistakes because they help me improve and become better

30.  Life – for giving me the chance to experience new and exciting things

Just writing my list has filled me with so much joy! It's no wonder why God tells us to rejoice always, pray without ceasing, and give thanks in everything.

What are you thankful for?